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  1. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    Your opinion it's just that, your opinion (and its seems that it's that i;am attacking everybody) still i respect but you have no opinion about the subject, so you're just spaming here. This is not a show and tell thread and nobody cares what u did in other discussions, nobody asked you in this thread and nobody needs for u to "come to the rescue". So just mind your own buissnes and go searching for people you leave with no reply so you can feel smart and superior;) I understand that and i'am not arguing that she should stay home and be a house wife because she's a woman. I'am however arguing that she shouldn't even be allowed to be near his kids since she hates all children and finds them "disgusting and repulsive and an obstacle in the way of your happiness" (there, i said it again). If your husband would had these feelings would you had really married him and had children with him? Would u really had put them in harms way like that in a situation that had 90% chanses to turn abusive? This isn't a gender thread, i just think he should offer his future children the best home and family environment and that means with a real actual parent not with something like that..
  2. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    Nothing personal, i'am just so sick of people posting in my thread without actually reading any posts or just browsing through them...
  3. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    Yes i have strong feelings about this but that's beside the point. In my oppinion they just went to far with that and that's just because they can... I don't generally think that a forum debate is necessary for a tv show and especially for a sitcom but this one was the last drop. As i said before is not that this show did this kinda thing for the first time, it's the "Let's just hire cheap writers and instead of complex story plot will just shock people with stupid things" we see in almost every show now...
  4. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    Thank you for that lesson of life and that insult, we the "less intelligent" people thank you for the kind thoughts and great advices, we'll be sure to write them down. That was exactly the point I was trying to make. The fact that these characters are not ideal parenting material is what makes them funny. In real life, would you want to hang around with mama's boy Howard, arrogant, obnoxious Sheldon or drunken, obnoxious Raj either? Why is Bernadette being held to a different standard? She's just a character in a comedy. Also, I imagine that Bernadette getting more of a backbone and disagreeing with Howard over major things could lead to some good comedy conflicts with the original Mrs. Wolowitz - a fat, loud, overprotective Jewish mother; not exactly politically correct. To Alex7,getting back to real life, the idea that having a child automatically makes you grow up fast is one of the reasons that there are so many neglected and abused children. No, the people who hate children make abusive parents, check the statistics don't invent crap just to make a point. Nobody is really prepared to be a parent and we learn as we go but you can't do this without affection and care for your children.... There's no comedy conflicts with somebody who hates children and there's nothing funny about it. If you guys laugh when she says that and you even defend her then u agree and think that children are disgusting and repulsive and an obstacle in the way of your happiness and i'll always think that people who think like that are sad lonely self-absorbed douches. And if u can't even love your own child then you're a waste of life incapable of any kind of affection unless it's for yourself.
  5. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    Hi Alex7, The Big Bang Theory is fiction & comedy by its very definition it is fantasy You obviously have some issues with the direction that the fictional character Bernadette is being taken in by the writers. Fair enough. I personaly wonder at the wisdom of airing your personal issues on a fan forum. But that is up to you. I have no desire to get into it with you, and as such already regret posting on what you have claimed as your thread. But I will (just for the sake of it) re-emphasise "Fiction & Comedy." It is tough enough when one takes real life too seriously, without getting bent out of shape over a character in a TV show. That is all I have to say on the subject. So have fun with it. Hi Albert Bester First of all that's pretty personal attack for someone who doesn't want to "get into it" I have "personal issues " now?? Really? And where exacty do these "personal issues " stick out?? Pray tell:) So from your point of view anybody can send any message as long as is followed by laughter and the title "Fiction & Comedy." You can just say "Hitler was a great guy" and then there's some laughter and "Fiction & Comedy." Because we are all mindless sheep and if we're been told to laugh we laugh and if we're been told to get upset we get upset but only when the writing at the beginning and Albert Bester tells us to;) In case i'am not mistaking we are on a Big Bang Theory site and we are talking about (are u sitting down?) Big Bang Theory;) So why don't u get "bent out of shape" for what u want to get and i'll just get for whatever i want to get. Is that ok with u?
  6. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    Are u a hysterical teenage girl? How does 'cute and kind' make "completely passive"?? Am really starting to wonder about u.. Back o the topic i understand what (and for that matter everybody else i think) Howard perpetually comedy is suppose to be however it can be done without hating children.. If you're not suppose be taken literally than nothing can be taken literally, we can just assume that when (for instance) Leonard Hofstadter said the he respects women that he actually hates them and he is a just another bigot because acording to you we are suppose to draw your own conclusions and ignore the facts.... U.K?? There you go again with the gender thing which makes me question your gender.... Or maybe you're just one of those "stay home keept by your wife" and you need to justify yourself... quote='Tiddles' pid='25647' dateline='1327173885'] With all the fuss about Bernadette, why is no one mentioning that Howard would make a terrible father as he is now? This is a grown man who expects his mother or wife to bring him breakfast in bed and to butter his bread for him. Is he really going to stay up all night trying to comfort a crying baby? I wouldn't want to have children with him, either. Of course this is TV Land, where as soon as someone gets pregnant they turn into a mature, responsible adult who loves and is great with kids.
  7. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    Well first of all Matt, the feminist side of her character from my point of view is being forced on her in that episode by saying "You should stay home with the kids because i make more money anyway and i'll go live my life" which was so unlike her since she was suppose to be the cute and kind one. The side of her that has nothing to do with her character was probably forced on her for p.c reasons because like i said earlier, they are probably starting the wave of boring crap just like in any other show.. Now, i may understand why u both decided u shouldn't have children and a salute the decision since people who have good reasons like quick temper or not enough patience or maybe or just the fact that u may not seem to stand them usualy just show that u (and i say this without trying to insult u or your wife) may not be a fit parent. U may love to play with children but parenting a 24 hour job (i don't think it's a job if it comes natural) a day and your lack of patience at the supermarket is not a good sign... Now i salute the decision that u shouldn't have children in light of what u told me and even if i don't care to speculate any further it may be that your posible children would be better of not having a parent like u. However the point was not the fact that she didn't want them and i'am not gonna repeat what i wrote in black bigg letters so ANOBODY (anybody and that includes u too) can see;) The point is that it's a diference between not wanting them and hating them and having them anyway... At least one person should try to read the posts so i wouldn't have to repeat everything over and over and over again...
  8. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    Well they done it now and they can't take it back.....believe me i use to like her more than any female character on the show but now i can't stand the sight of her...
  9. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    As of this I said nothing of the sort. I was trying to say: Maybe people on here did not understand what you were trying to discuss, so if they were not discussing what you wanted or it got off topic maybe you needed to reword/restate the topic in a different way. People can not read each other minds and therefore things sometime sound off topic when either the person misread or did not understand the poster's original idea. And as for a condescending attitude: You're reading that. I have no attitude towards you. That was my response. Look, i'am making 2 points in this thread: 1 Is the fact that in trying to approach the feminist subject they made her into a horrible person (not because she has feminist views but because of her hearted for children) thus creating the first character that i (and probably many others) dislike just so they could be politically correct and begin the first in the long line of boring crap (gay, black,immigrants,children for gay etc), that we had to watch for so many years.... And since running away from so many shows that do that out of lack of imagination or real writers i ended up seeing this one i was really hoping that this one will at least try to be diferent and not just a copy if whatever everybody does...... That is up untill this episode which looks like the triggering episode for the P.C.B.C (politically correct boring crap)... The disappointment was so great that it opend my frustrations about this kinda boring crap and since the subject was already opened....it made point number 2 by itself.. I'am not trying to pick a fight with u but if that's really your point i'll have to disagree since whatever u understood or not is not shared by any other user.
  10. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    Believe it or not there are people in the world who think the same about children. Its something about the early years of children touching everything and putting everything in their mouth and all the questions that those people can not stand. Also people tend to say they hate things when they really mean they just really really dislike them. Most likely she does not know how to deal with children or does not have the patients which means in turn means children do not like her which makes her dislike them even more. People are allowed to hate children and put their happiness above having children, which is why those people tend to not have children or fulfill their dreams before having them P.S. I did read the post. What I got from yours was a question about political correctness in tv shows and then I added my thoughts to what I got from the posts others left. Do not attack people because you didn't get the exact answer you were looking for or because people didn't agree with your thought, come back and reword the point you were trying to make and maybe the thread will head in the direction you were looking for. First of all i don't need for people to agree with me in order to validade my point of view as u claim i do in order to justify your lack of attention. I posted this thread expecting people to disagree with me because that's what an discussion is all about, an exchange of ideas between two or more individuals. As for what i wanted to say...do you really mean to tell me that u know what mean by what i say better than i do? Seriously?? Ok, leaving your condescending attitude aside i'll prove that you are if fact not reading the post but you're more like browsing through them... In my first post i said and go on and explain my problem with this saying That of course means (in case u don't understand) that for the first time they pushed the pc to far and turned her into a character that i dislike because of the hating children... Then i say which is the "politically correct" part in case you didn't get that.... In the next posts i discuss why i think she is a bad person because of her hate and why i think he should brake up with her for the well-being of his future children.... Then me and PBJ exchange oppinions about this subject and all of a sudden you and fiction pop up with a quote from the beginning of the discussion with him/her ignoring all the conclusions reached by me and him/her to post a point of view that shows that you didn't even watched the episode.... You say that and when she said that she did take care of children in 2 occasions... There is no maybe on why she hates them...she said why she hates them... Do you even watch the show??? Yes people are allowed to hate children, they are also allowed to hate black people and women and so on and so forth, that's not the point, you shouldn't be in a mother position when u hate children just like you shouldn't be appointed by big companies to chose who to hire when you're a racist. Wolowitz shouldn't put his future children in harm's way by chosing a mother who will hate and possibly leave emotional scars on them for the rest of their life (best case scenario)..
  11. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    You guys are not reading my posts and not even paying attention to the show... I'am gonna try to make myself more clear.. IT'S NOT JUST THAT SHE DOESN'T WANT CHILDREN IT'S THAT SHE HATES THEM!!!!!! SHE THINKS THAT THEY ARE DISGUSTING AND REPULSIVE AND AN OBSTACLE IN THE WAY OF HER HAPPINES!!! How much more clearer do i need to get Aviodingtherealworld and Fiction315???? This is not a gender or "head of the family issue"... If you're gonna post in my thread please have the common sense to read the posts... Of course there are other factors that make that episode a bad idea like him being an freakin genious and the responsibility that he has towards his children not to put them in harms way but all of these have been discussed if you'd bothered to read the posts and understand what we are taking about before you start posting...
  12. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    You're right, she shouldn't give in if she she doesn't have it in her.. Fiction They can't leave it alone because demonizing family values and mocking any kind religion is the cool thing right now apparently... It takes real imagination and talent to come up with complex ideas, taking cheap shots on these kinda things it's a lot easier than a writing complex dialog and storyline, this way people will focus on these things rather on the lack of ideas and imagination.....
  13. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    I agree, they should had discussed this before marriage and it doesn't make sence that they didn't.. Here i disagree with u, most people who have a bad childhood do everything in their power to not repete history and give their kids all the things they never had including love and affection.
  14. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    I agree 100%, you can never compromise with the lives of your children. And ya....you can't risk it since people like that will never really change..
  15. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    I agree, someone like her would be better of not parenting, and that would be a good thing especially for the children. He should just brake up move on if he wants a familly.. The point was not the just the work thing, the problem it's her whole attitude vis-a vis children, she hates them, she doesn't want them, she thinks they are obstacles in the way of her happiness and that's just the perfect recipe for an abusive parent believe me... In my oppinion it's his obligation obligation towards his future children to chose a real mother who will love them and care for them and not leave emotional scars (or any other kind) on them. Obviously he has to love/like her but as far as a family goes....having children with her is putting them in harms way...
  16. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    First of all yes, i haven't followed her career that much because i wasn;t intrested and she may make a lot of money but money was never an issue for them, in my oppinion if she does it was just forced into the show so they can do the boring "Wow what if we reverse family roles, what will he say and do then" and as i said it was shocking in the 90's but i'am kinda sick of this now. Don't turn this into a gender thing PBJ cuz this it's not the point... The point is that a mom is the woman not the man or the dog or the nanny. I'am sure u have a different opinion about family values but your mother was there for u and loved u and cared for u... It's easy for u to say this now after all is done but if the situation was diferent in your family you'd never say that. Nobody and i mean NOBODY that had a mother who was never there because she was "living her life" and thot children were obstacles in the way of her fun loves or even cares if that so called mother lives or dies tomorrow. I'am not misogynistic i'am just telling u what i saw, every single person in that situation i've meet (and i've meet a lot of people like that because of my job) hates their parent because of that..... No matter what your oppinion is about children they are not idiots and they are even more sensitive to this kinda of things and sence it right away.. In such a situation i blame Wolowitz for not providing the best family environment by choosing such a failed attempt of a mother... Wait a minute, she doesn't even care enough to attempt to be a mother, she just wants to live her life... This is the kinda of person u see on tv locking the children in a closet cuz they get in the way of her happines while she's home alone with them and that's not ok... It's pretty hard to understand sometimes that the only living thing on the earth (who is considerd the most evolved) the human and especially the woman who we look up to when she's our mother and expect love, understanding, compasion can be so disgusting and savage.... Actually not savage at all, you don't ever see an savage animal pushing her children away with her foot because she wants to keep having fun... You only see that in a human "mother"... I've always said that they should give out a license to have children and people like her would be one of those who'd never get one.
  17. Alex7

    Bernadette crap...

    I know what u mean Fiction315,leaving aside the psychological reasons that basically makes her a bad person Wolowitz is for all intents and purposes a genius (Sheldon's opinion aside)... Her thinking is that he should just quit e everything he's doing and be a stay home dad because she has to "live her life" pursuing the glorious career of a cheese cake factory waitress... Society can go without a minds like Wolowitz but taking a plate to your table...that's what society needs more, that's a real genius;). From somebody who raised my brother and sisters (in real life not in fiction) can't for the life of me understand how does that make u hate children.... Since when doing good things for your family for a change constitutes a burden? I've seen people like me make great families like i'am about to make but i have to tell u...i've seen the children of people like Bernadette and they hate their parent... You really think children can't sence a parent's resentment?? You really think they don't feel when they are not loved and all they are is an obstacle in the way her/him having fun and "living her/his life"? Children are not an accessory and if you're not ready to commit, to give your all, out of love not out of obligation than you shouldn't have them. They will turn out hating u and that won't make them ungrateful....i'll just make u a horrible attempt of a parent... Ironically these are the people who later bitch and complain that nobody gives a shit about them and they leave nothing behind....
  18. I just finished watching the 12th episode from season 5 and i gatta say, it's the first time i dislike a character from the show... I understand what they are trying to do, i know they have to be politically correct and hide a true feminist spirit underneath one of the characters because they have to approach the subject but this was not ok.... Hating children???? Children are a waste of life?? What the hell is that? Since when did children and family values in general become the evil of society?? And furthermore, (since i've opend up the subject) i'm really sick of these politically correct episodes..I can't see a sitcom or a cartoon without these black,gay,republican,feminist, "lesson of life" episodes... I have no problem with anyone but i swear, ever since this wave of ballshit i'am really starting to.. Do u guys (in case anyone is watching) really think anybody really gives a dry piece of shit what your social political opinions are?? Is it hollywood's oppinion that everybody is retarded and they are educating the masses??? I'd like to see that moron who takes life lessons from tv shows,and sitcoms no less... Maybe they think that these kinda subjects are shocking.... Well i got news for them: THIS IS NOT THE 90's...these subjects are so overly discussed they bore everybody to death.... how about shocking us with a show that just entertains...you know maybe doing for the first time in a long time what a sitcom should do, you know, just make us laugh instead of patronising us. That would be a nice change... God what i wouldn't give for Seinfeld to start again... Sorry for this thread but i'am just so sick of this....
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