Jim Parsons in The Cast & Crew Posted October 22, 2013 Sorry, but the term 'Lifestyle Choice' makes me cringe. Those who think you can choose your sexual orientation are usually stumped when I ask how they suppress their homosexual urges. It's a 'choice' after all, no, so you must 'choose' to ignore them then? Or perhaps you don't get to choose at all, and you are what you are:- Heterosexual, Homosexual, Bisexual or Asexual. I know I certainly didn't get to choose my own sexuality and I've yet to met anyone who did. I do realise you want to be supportive, but the term 'lifestyle choice' fuels homophobia.