Should Sheldon Ever Sleep With Amy

[MJistheBOMB]

But I think it would be a very big deal for Sheldon--all kinds of walls would have to come tumbling down in order for him to go through with that and I don't see it happening on a whim.

ETA: Although I do have an image in my head--probably more JP than Sheldon...

Jim has done this thing several times in sort of casual interviews where he'll raise his arms up in a little victory salute--like this \o/

He kind of did it when Penny helped the guys get Sheldon's things back from Zarnecki.

So now, every time I think of Sheldon having finally gone through with sleeping with Amy, I imagine him emerging from the bedroom doing that and saying, "We did it!" :D :D :D

LMAO! WE DID IT! Good one.

Monique

[Lissie]

Yeah but if Shelley didn't look how he does would half the people on here care a hoot if he never had sex with Amy? I doubt it. It's not so much about the character as his cute ass.

ha ha I think you are right. And some of us would like to be Amy when this happen

Edited November 16, 2012 by Lissie

[koops]

I don't know why people think he wouldn't do it before marriage. There's plenty of stuff he disagree with his mother on and does his own way and even getting back "together" with Amy in the Zazzy Substitution was done on purpose to go against what his mother said. Yes, he loves her and respects her and I don't think he would do anything to purposefully offend her, but I honestly don't think sex before marriage is one of those things. I mean, I'm not saying it would be far fetched for him to wait until the wedding night, but I would in no way be shocked if he did it before, as I said before I think it will probably happen before because I don't see them getting married until the series finale and there's too much comedy potential in them consummating to save it for the very end.

[MJistheBOMB]

I agree with you. It's kind of a toss up for me but mostly I feel the same way. Although he has much respect for his mom, he's not as religious as her and has made this quite clear more than once by little comments he makes. One of them in which he says something along the lines of, ..."it would be proof that your God works miracles...." I forgot which episode he said this and exactly how it was said, but yeah. LOL.

Monique

[Lissie]

Yes, but sometimes he is showing little bit a religious "inheritance" from her mother like when she shouted: THANKS JESUS! (not exact words) when he was playing in the bowling against Wil Wheaton. Even very fast he said: "as my mother would say" but was like he excused himself about his words. And he desisted very fast about his idea of using artificial system for making a baby with Amy when Penny remembered him how this will affect his mother....

But still I think they will do this before marriage, I agree with Spook about the comedy potential.

Edited November 16, 2012 by Lissie

[bigbangsheldon]

i sooooo agree i just dont think he would give a crap about doing it before marriage

[Draganmac]

This might work, but the writers need to handle it carefully I think.

[Shamyfan]

In my perfect world. I would love for Amy and Sheldon to get married first before they have sex.

Even though Sheldon isn't religious, he does care what his mother will say and feel.

If they do it before they get married, I want to do it without them drunk or on something

I want their first time to be special

They waited this long and I don't want it to be cheapened for laughs

[Guest I'm not dead Cheryl]

IMO I do think that marriage will happen probably before sex, but not because of the religious aspect, or because his mother would want it.

I think Sheldon would be a fan of marriage, because marriage is, basically a contract. A legally binding contract. If Sheldon already makes such a big deal out of the Relationship Agreement, I suppose the marriage contract would be the next step for him. Contracts make him feel safe, protected and with the structure he needs. So yeah. I could see him needing that reassurance before he ventures into sex.

Also, it would give Amy a hell of a good excuse to consumate it LOL. Sex on the wedding night it IS a social convention-. One of the biggest social conventions ever.

Edited November 24, 2012 by Sursonica

[Shel_Ra_Ho_Le]

I could go into full detail of my thoughts of yes or no. But why write a book when I can say HELL YEAH THEY SHOULD!

[Frieda Rainstorm]

I could go into full detail of my thoughts of yes or no. But why write a book when I can say HELL YEAH THEY SHOULD!

:lol: :lol: :lol: Agreed.

Can't stop.... LOL...

[Pomita]

Phanta - you're doing it again. In the common urban parlance - I'd like to marry your last few posts (or make love first, whatever..)

Although I do have an image in my head--probably more JP than Sheldon...

Jim has done this thing several times in sort of casual interviews where he'll raise his arms up in a little victory salute--like this \o/

He kind of did it when Penny helped the guys get Sheldon's things back from Zarnecki.

So now, every time I think of Sheldon having finally gone through with sleeping with Amy, I imagine him emerging from the bedroom doing that and saying, "We did it!" :D :D :D

And this is cracking me up so badly. I know just the 'victory sign' you mean.

Regarding before or after marriage - I don't have a definite view. I just want it to be special and momentous, whenever it happens, and not just played for laughs. I'm not sure if Sheldon would necessarily 'hold out' to please his mother or follow her religious views, but Sursonica's idea of his needing the security of a lasting contract sounds plausible.

[koops]

I don't think Sheldon would see a marriage certificate as any more valuable than his Relationship Agreement, to be honest. He actually has more control over their agreement than an official marriage! I really don't think he would feel more "secure" in his relationship if he were married, imo, he would marry mostly for social convention or to make a statement about his relationship with Amy to other people, I don't think it would have anything to do with his perception of the relationship.

I do think what stands between him and sex at this point is totally to do with his fears/aversion to intimacy and human contact. And relaxing enough to find arousal in something. So I do believe he would have to have an EXTREME level of comfort with the other person to do it and I think he trusts that Amy would never mistreat him and he is getting more and more comfortable with her.

[4theShamy]

I think when Sheldon is drunk with amy at the end of an episode they should stumble into Sheldons/Amys apartment. Sheldon's soooo drunk that he kisses Amy, she is so suprised that she acts stunned then Amy continues and they go in Sheldon/Amys bedroom. Then its goes to the view from outside Sheldon/Amys bedroom and Sheldon shouts "By golly!" or something like that then the episode ends...

In the next episode Sheldon should wake up with amys arms around him in his/Amys bed and say "interesting..." Then the phone beside Amy rings and Amy picks it up and immediately says "Sheldon and just engaged in coitus!" And Penny who was calling puts down the phone. Shedon who realises what has happened as the smile fades from his face says "Oh no!" Then he gets a tweet from Leonard saying "You and Amy just had sex!?!?!" Then Sheldon says "NO NO NO NO NOOO NOOO NO!!!" Then it cut to another story...

[gwhh]

An interview with her about this subject: 

 

 

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2307766/Mayim-Bialiks-Big-Bang-Theory-Why-actress-doesnt-want-sexualise-geeky-love-screen-love-Sheldon-Cooper.html

 

 

Edited April 15, 2013 by gwhh

[wannamaker]

Yeah... I did read it the 12 of April 2013. I did not wish to post the link (I kept to myself) as I always suspected it would not happen, at least no before marriage or the way almost every one exspected around here.

Edited April 15, 2013 by wannamaker

[rubyanjel]

wow. a total waste of space.

[Nogravitasatall]

In my perfect world. I would love for Amy and Sheldon to get married first before they have sex.

Even though Sheldon isn't religious, he does care what his mother will say and feel.

If they do it before they get married, I want to do it without them drunk or on something

I want their first time to be special

They waited this long and I don't want it to be cheapened for laughs

I just hope they have run good simulations or done lots of research (Amy has im sure) because there is no substitute for experience. But it will be special, no doubt. And his mum seems rather pragmatic. She'd be praising the Lord regardless because she would be happy for her much loved son.

Rats this was so old. Apologies for the bump. But I do think love will trump religion.

Edited April 15, 2013 by Nogravitasatall

[Shamyfan]

Yes!!!!!!

A thousand times yes they need to get it on

[Moonbase]

I don't think we really have a choice. It's obvious they will.

Edited April 17, 2013 by Moonbase

[Ar Diem]

What is it with old threads lately?

 

I don't think the question can be answered until we see how they plan to get him there.  This year they have made it really clear he still finds holding hands distasteful and can only tolerate contact in extreme situations.  This will probably soften before the end of the season but he has a long long way to go.

 

Like Moonbase said we are on that path and unless a major twist is coming we are heading for the bedroom with these two.

[rubyanjel]

But like black holes, I tell you, this is inevitable.

[bigbangsheldon]

 

 

Like Moonbase said we are on that path and unless a major twist is coming we are heading for the bedroom with these two.

by then you will be squealing

[Ar Diem]

by then you will be squealing

 

 

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Did Ar really just use the wub emoticon?!  Talk about character development!