annieogly Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Well said :-) Monique Arg, unless there are other gay people here besides me, let me tell you that for women there is such a thing as sexual fluidity. They marry men, have families and later in life have female partners. I've met a few women who told me this and there are tons of articles on this very subject. I tend to agree with Freud that people are naturally bisexual and in today's culture women are permitted to experiment with same sex relationships with no problem unlike men. And actually Monique being on the down low is the saddest thing for the black gay community, the anti-gay attitude makes life very difficult, if more black gay men and women [ do you hear me Queen Latifah] came out it would be very helpful in dispelling homophobia. Ellen coming out made a huge difference for lesbians and certainly for me to see a prominent happy successful out lesbian was a huge factor [well The L Word really helped;-] in my coming out. Jim is gay and I wish he could talk about Todd in the same normal regular way someone mentions a boyfriend/girlfriend, spouse. As a part of one's life.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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